How to Deal With This Monster?
Heya!:)
Righto, long story short (ish) Im 17, boarding with ‘family friends’(elderly couple whom ive known since i was 15 months old) my dad is paying the board money $150 nz dollars a week, i cant live with my mum as she has Multiple Sclerosis and we fight too much. And dads a workaholic who wont let me move home.
Anyway this couple i live with, lets just call her D, and call him J. J has parkinsons disease. D is a crazy 69 year old bat who thinks ‘the world wouldnt go round without her’.
Im doing homeschool ALONE and she wont leave me alone, but when she does, she leaves me with J all day every day to babysit.
We have fleas infesting the house, also ants. and she nver gets my groceries. NO idea where dad’s moneys going.
Anyway, any suggestions as to what to do? Id LOVE to live on my own somewhere (im that kind of person…) i can cook clean shop look after myself etc etc…
but no1 wants a 17 yr old!
help 
want to write more but cant.
xxx
also, theres a ‘refugee’ (literally, shes from sri lanka, but has a job,and a flat…) moving in here soon. and dad still wont let me move home!!! argh my god. D always criticizes my parents and lectures me.
If i was a weak person she would have complete control over me.
But im not.
So now i need some advice as to either A: deal with her, or B:where to go…
x
lol thanks wiss:)
razor, no we cant be friends…
I’ve been working but only just stopped. i have anxiety disorder which im slowly getting over.
and the 13 yr old guy, cheers for that. saying u dont understand then sayin sumthin that made perfect sense!:)
thank uuu
xxx
oh and something else (man i shud shut up….) but dad knows everything thats going on.
everything.
i write him emails every day and call him and text him. and he lets me stay during weekends just not during the week. i just want to pack up my stuff and go. but got nowhere! argh!
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Filed under: Parkinsons
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you need to just get a job. that way you wont be home and youll have your own money. then just stick it out until you can afford your own place, or ask your dad to assist you in that. Good luck.
When you can go to the police an get away and get help.
you had a bad life….we can be friends.
: )
See I didnt hardely understand that but i think your 17 right so AS SOON as you reach 18 just move out cause then your an adult you have your own freewill you can do what you like you can live in a shed (not meant at you) or a Huge Mansion the fact is they have no control. Tell them they can come visit anytime or if you cant wait that long just do what you want move out stay your choice see im only 13 so I dont know much about this
I think that you need to talk to your parents and tell them what is going on, and how you are being treated. if that does not work and they still will not let you come home, then see if you can find another family member to live with. I personally do not understand parents not wanting their child with them.
Any way if you cannot find anyone else who is willing and able to take you in, then get a job and save your money so that you can move out when you turn 18.
I wish you luck, and am truly sorry for your delima.
I’d let your father understand the circumstances under which your living. Ask him to stop by without notice, so he can verify the situation for himself. If your inevitable intentions are to go to university, maybe consider convincing your father to hire a tutor to accelerate obtaining your high school degree. Moving on to your Bachelor’s would solve many problems as it relates to your situation. Since your in the position to make that happen, take advantage of the situation. good luck.
your almost 18 get a job save some money time will go by alot faster